Response to Critics of D/s Men

Some think a man can’t be a man in the D/s lifestyle

They think we’re mean to women, and treat them rather vile

Some think we all are sadists, thrilled to dish out pain

And they label us somewhere between the crazy and insane

 

But not one of them has ever experienced the life

Or felt the cathartic release of pleasure-pain relieving strife

They’ve never had a relationship where there is total trust

Or the freedom to be just who you are without disgust

 

They’ve never had an orgasm that topped the Richter scale

Or multiples so powerful they forgot to exhale

They’ve never had a mate with love so unconditional

They submit in total obedience completely intentional

 

They’ve never had a fantasy come to pass in every way

Or realize from the moment you wake you begin the foreplay

They’re so set in their ways most are “anal retentive”

Hell… they don’t even know you can be sexually inventive

 

Just once I’d like to hear someone first choose to try

Before they condemn us “kinksters” without a reason why

Of course there are exceptions, bad apples in the bunch

Cuz’ posers are as clueless as the mentally out-to-lunch

 

It requires responsibility to be a legitimate D/s man

He bears the weight of leadership—according to plan

Fulfilling wants and needs, and keeping his sub safe and protected

Finding sub-space without sub-drop, aftercare is never neglected

 

Many Doms in the D/s scheme give more than they take

It turns them on to please their subs and hear the sounds they make

The whimpers and moans, cries and passionate screams

Testify that they’re fulfilling their sub’s fantasy dreams

 

An experienced Dom works like hell to please his mate

The D/s life is give and take, and when done right the reward is great

His loving sub submits to him, expressions of love through obedience

Cuz’ the give and take in the D/s life are the proven ingredients

 

And don’t forget the love and trust, respect and communication

Adding to the D/s relationship contentment and elation

So to the critics of D/s men I will simply say

Judge not, or you’ll be judged… cuz’ turnabout is fair play

12 thoughts on “Response to Critics of D/s Men

  1. To my way of looking at it, a Dom treats His sub far better than a traditional man treats his lady. Does the traditional man take the time and trouble to know his lady so well, both physically and emotionally, that he doesn’t harm her?–No! Does he put her wants and needs above his own?–Usually not.
    I would imagine there are not many women out there who have been a sub to a true Dom, and then have gone back to a traditional relationship . And I think that in itself speaks volumes.
    Great poem, Daddy. ♥️

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  2. Even if you do not practice you should never judge. I love every aspect of that sexual connection no matter what it is. As long as your not harming someone. I enjoy reading about people dom/sub connections. I feel as though I connect with all that write about it. And it’s not just me that enjoys all the wonders of kinkyland.

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