D/s: Prefer real scenes: Pt.3 Feeding the senses

This is the third part in a series of posts telling how kat and I incorporate sex into everyday activities, hobbies, past-times, etc.

Sensory play is well-known in the D/s world. The standard versions usually have the sub bound and blindfolded while the Dom chooses a variety of items to tantalize her senses.

However, this is a series about how we find sexual stimulation with everyday activities. So, this post will discuss art/photography, massages, and romantic dining, because sensory stimulation and sexual arousal can be achieved with each. Continue reading “D/s: Prefer real scenes: Pt.3 Feeding the senses”

A Halloween Bedtime Story

Mia froze, held her breath. Listened.

The encroaching night pressed in on her, warm, humid…silent, the wild thumping of her heart the only sound that broke its canopied darkness. She turned a slow circle, eyes probing the trees and dense underbrush crowding the running trail, alert for the tiniest movement, the rustle of a branch, the turn of a leaf.

She let out her pent breath, along with a nervous laugh. She had only imagined the soft footfalls pacing her, that crisp snap of a twig. Nothing stirred in the moon-dappled shadows.

With a shake of her head, she set off down the path once more in an easy jog. But her mind wasn’t easy; heat knifed between her shoulder blades, as if eyes were boring into her back. The sweat beading her body turned cold. Goose flesh prickled her arms.

More times than she could count, she had run this trail as twilight was bleeding into night. But this was the first time she had felt anxious, almost…afraid. Continue reading “A Halloween Bedtime Story”

D/s: Prefer real scenes: (Pt.2) In tune with each other

In the first part of this series I explained how kat and I prefer to incorporate sex into our daily activities, hobbies, past-times, etc., instead of participating in the standard pretend play scenes (like Master/slave, Teacher/student, Doctor/nurse). And I ended the post by explaining how my love for motorcycles can and has been included in our sex-life.

Today’s post will touch on a few ways we utilize music to enhance our sex-life. Continue reading “D/s: Prefer real scenes: (Pt.2) In tune with each other”

D/s: Prefer real scenes + Bad to the Bone

D/s: Prefer Real Scenes

Traditional play scenes like Master/slave, Teacher/school girl, Doctor/nurse, and countless others have never been included in our sex-life. Kat and I have experimented with the traditional play sessions in past relationships, with similar results: it didn’t do much for either of us. We have nothing against such play, but they’re not a good fit for our personalities.

We don’t want to pretend to be anyone else: we’re realists. We want to experience our sexuality—through playfulness, exploration, and experimentation—completely as ourselves.

The possibilities for sexual variation are equally limitless when remaining ourselves as they are for those that role-play; plus, we’re never hampered by the perceived boundaries of a character. The only limits we have are the limits of our imagination.

Kat has often told me that she loves my seemingly insatiable appetite for learning and experiencing new things. And, as her Dom, I’ve seen the possibilities—with positive benefits—of incorporating sex into as many areas of interest as we can. It creates a vast arena outside of traditional play sessions to enjoy sexual diversity; plus, it fits our personalities better, since we explore and experience it as ourselves.

So, I’ve decided to write some posts on how sex can be incorporated into areas of interest. Naturally, I’ll be using various daily life situations, hobbies, past-times, and other interests closely related to kat and I.

I’m sure many of you have already done similar activities. But it may spark additional ideas for spicing up the sex-life of couples new to D/s, or even vanilla couples.

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Bad to the Bone, Good for the Boner

The area I want to begin with is my love of motorcycles. I’ve ridden bikes on and off road since I was young. Bikes have an allure for those who like things cool, fast, powerful, and sexy. They also spark images and thoughts of independence, freedom, Lone Wolves, rogues, rebels, outlaws, and bad boys.

The growl of a Harley when it cranks over is like a badass baritone announcing the arousing festivities are about to commence. When you straddle the steel steed in Levi’s and leather—and your lady cuddles behind you close enough to feel her temperature rise with the throbbing vibrations of the bike between your legs—you can’t help smiling on the inside, while maintaining your exterior cool.

Yes, bikes and babes go together like tongues and clits. And if you can’t think of some sexy possibilities with that combination then Viagra won’t even help you. After all, the primary apparel for babes on bikes is tight-ass jeans, short-shorts, bikinis, and leather. And the leather can be anything from mini-skirts to pants, or vests to chaps. And a babe with leather chaps over panties with sexy butt cheeks exposed is a standard wet dream for any serious biker.

For the more experienced bikers with a taste for thrills, sex at 70-mph or above gets the adrenalin pumping faster than your penis in her pussy. It’s kind of like entering the mile-high club for frequent flyers. But, as you can imagine, it’s dangerous as hell. So, while I considered it in my reckless youth, my middle-age maturity and common sense will not allow me to endanger kat.

However, the throbbing vibration of a Harley—which is far better than any vibrating household appliance women have humped for masturbatory purposes throughout history—is too good not to take advantage of. So, just think of the wonderful possibilities of you and your sub in a modified cowboy or reverse cowboy position atop an idling Harley, and the vibrations varying at the twist of a throttle. Or, how about the same positions while riding slow down a bumpy dirt road.

The vibrations of the bike along with road choice can also be a great way to arouse your sub, or get her off sexually. Sex toys—dildoes, vibrators, and butt plugs—can easily be used in her pussy, ass, or both. It gives a whole new meaning to joy-riding.

On less adventurous days, a bike can still take you to some great secluded spots where you can get naked, skinny-dip, and fuck your brains out in the heat of the sun, or under the moon and stars; whether on the ground, straddling the bike, or simply bending her over it.

The scenario possibilities are endless. For instance, I really like the following Halloween scenario:

Kat wears a pair of her skin-tight jeans—which help secure a plug in her ass—along with sexy knee-high leather boots, and a slinky silk top that blows with the breeze.

We hop on the Harley and go hog-wild visiting half a dozen haunted houses in three adjoining counties. We then head up through an old cemetery to a secluded spot where a rippling brook empties into a lake.

Once there, we pay no mind to the bewitching hour as we suck and fuck for a couple hours; ending with the piece de resistance, removing the butt plug, bending her over the seat of the bike, and fucking and spanking her ass until she screams and cums so long that every critter in the forest knows my name.

Last word

There’s nothing better than enjoying orgasmic bliss doing something you love with the person you love the most. So, if you haven’t done it already, make a list of your daily duties, hobbies, past-times, etc, and begin to find ways to include them in your sex-life. You won’t be sorry.

PS: My next several posts will touch on some other areas kat and I have chosen to include in our sex-life: some to spice up our sex-life, and others to spice up the activity (like chores).

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A Dom’s Armor

Even unconditional love feels the sting
from darts of doubt tossed by a mate
It leaves you hanging with words of love
stranded on the tip of your tongue
You want to reassure them that your love
is real—and forever
Assurance spoken countless times,
now obvious to no avail
For had they truly believed it then
it would not be necessary now
But you will feel the sting,
and accept the pain,
for “unconditional” means exactly that
Through all seasons,
taking the bad with the good,
when less is more…more or less,
and the most misunderstood
is Love’s simple truth

Us Doms must have strong shoulders
when a sub’s resolve is sub-standard,
for feminine emotions swing
like Poe’s pendulum
from doubts to definite and back again
From day-after-day of depression
to better days and wild weeks
and recollections of positive memories
It’s not the knight with spotless armor,
shiny and bright, that wins battles
It’s the knight with armor weatherworn,
bloodied, battered, and bruised
that is competent and can be counted on

My armor is worn thru-and-thru
My body has scars upon scars
A perfect match for my heart
But I forever hold the high ground
where pride may come and go,
and duty may ebb and flow,
and passion may falter on any given day—
but commitment never falters—
and love
eventually
conquers all

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