Yin and Yang

I am negative to His positive

…dark to His bright

He is logical to my emotional

…day to my night

I am soft to His hard

…round to His linear

He is hunter to my prey

…king to my courtier

I am river to His highway

…valley to His mountain

He is solid to my fluid

…thirsty soil to my fountain

I am dream to His reality

…heart to His soul

He is Dom to my sub

…together we are whole

Alpha’s Quotes: 3rd list

Here’s the third installment of the humorous, witty, or common-sense quotes.


“There are many ways to make a sub caterwaul, but spanking, reaming, and fucking work so well, you’ll probably forget the others.”

“A flatulent sub that is bound and gagged can’t warn her Dom as he starts to ream her.”

“An effortless Dom isn’t worth a sub’s effort to satisfy.”

“Only a true switch can top herself / himself.”

“Even a mature Dom wonders if he’s in the Twilight Zone when his sub’s time of the month goes from ‘yes, Sir’ to ‘oh, hell no!’”

“It’s foolish to boast about what you’re packing when you can’t perform once you penetrate.”

“Deep, low and slow can fuck for hours, while fast can’t last, so you’re quick to the showers.”

“A sub that’s nervous won’t do you much service, so ease her in and let the pleasure begin.”

“Mature Doms have the ability to make good decisions—which is achieved from the ability to learn from their bad decisions along the way.”

“Topping from the bottom is like pissing in the wind, it’s bound to come back on you.”


Have a good day.

Time Crunch

I read a blog recently—I would name it if I could remember it, but we read so many blogs that I’ve forgotten which it was—that mentioned a big career change and the person’s fears surrounding it, including the fear of not being able to give enough time to their mate.

Well, I’ve recently found myself in a similar situation. I’m not changing positions, I’m adding another position to the three positions I already hold with the organization.

The project could make a big difference to the organization and the small community. And, since it was my idea, and I’m the only person with sufficient skills and experience, I couldn’t very well turn down the position when the project was approved.

Presently, the project is in the final preparation stage prior to launch. So, as you can imagine, it’s occupying a lot of my time. And, as an Alpha, I still want to fulfill my other responsibilities.

Inevitably, with more to accomplish there is less time to get it all done. That includes relationships. And I definitely don’t want anything coming between me and kat.

Kat is always supportive with things I choose to do, and this situation is no exception. However, she was going through one of her depressed spells when this project began, and I was still recovering from bronchitis. So, I worried if the diminished time together would compound the issues and create an emotional distance.

Those who follow our blog know I’m a stickler for constant communication and guarding intimacy in order to maintain a positive emotional connection between us, while keeping our foundation of unconditional love solid.

We couldn’t devote the same amount of time, but we did and do make time everyday to communicate and connect. It’s something we’ve done from the beginning of our relationship. In fact, my day never feels complete until we connect daily.

Kat and I have often given up sleep time to ensure we get enough time to communicate and connect. And, let me tell you, maintaining that connection is one of the best things for the relationship we’ve ever done.

We’ve all heard variations of the cliché regarding time, that if you don’t have quantity make sure the time you spend together is quality time. And I cannot stress it enough, because it’s worth the effort. After all, preventing problems before they occur is much easier and less detrimental to the relationship than cleaning up problems once they’ve burst onto the scene.

It also helps to have a mate that agrees arguments are a waste of time. Yes, communication needs to be constant, but it also needs to be respectful. Though kat and I have different beliefs, and disagree on certain issues, we’ve never had an argument or fight, because we love and respect each other. And that’s a winning combination.

So, while I may still worry from time-to-time about having enough time for kat as this new project moves forward, I’m content to know what time we have will be used wisely.

Alpha’s Quotes: continued

Here’s the 2nd installment of the new series on quotes (humorous, witty, or basic common sense).

“Beware subs—don’t piss-off your Master if you’re not into golden showers.”

“A Dom that quarrels with a sub commits a major flub.”

“If it was really about tightness, no pussy would ever be fucked again after the Dom got his first piece of ass.”

“Make sure your sub is cleaned out prior to anal penetration or you may need to clean the sheets.”

“If you wake-up in a hole and reality is better than a wet dream, your sub’s a keeper.”

“Reaming an ass before it’s cleaned is doing it ass-backwards.”

“Don’t smack an ass that’s full of gas!”

“A sub that fails to serve her Dom is sub-standard, and may soon be replaced by a substitute.”

“Doms with no self-control are as worthless to a sub as a tick on a dick; and an uncontrollable sub is as satisfying as a eunuch in a harem of hussies.”

“Sloppy seconds are only acceptable if you also went first.”

Have a good day!

Alpha’s quotes: a new series

During our holiday hiatus I took some time to compile a few hundred original quotes into a collection. They run the gamut from humorous to witty to just plain common sense. There are more than enough to fill a book, but I decided to post them on the blog first (a little at a time). If they spark a giggle or grin it’s worth the effort.

“Don’t order your sub to squat with spiked ankle-cuffs on.”

“A strip-tease without the tease will never please a Dom.”

“Don’t bother your sub when she submissively squats to please you—unless she’s smothering you!”

“There never was a sub that couldn’t be rode, but a Dom that can be throwed is either too drunk or too old.”

“Never ask a Dom the size of his whip, cuz’ any whip flicked cracks mighty quick.”

“It’s not the size of a Dom’s dick that counts if he mind-fucks his sub before he mounts.”

“After a solid month of blow-jobs and pussy, even a switch to pussy and blow-jobs is good.”

“In D/s, sub-drop refers to a sub’s emotional letdown; unless, of course, their Dom bought the cheapest rope for suspension sessions.”

“Definition of a poser: a dickless wonder that’s still the biggest dickhead you’ll ever meet.”

“A tail wagging sub won’t stop till you spank it, ream it, or fuck it—preferably all three.”

Have a wonderful New Year in 2018!